{"id":1570,"date":"2022-06-17T18:51:31","date_gmt":"2022-06-18T00:51:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clearasmud.blog\/?p=1570"},"modified":"2022-06-17T18:53:52","modified_gmt":"2022-06-18T00:53:52","slug":"this-is-the-life-with-dogs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?p=1570","title":{"rendered":"This is the life (with dogs)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>\n<p>From the moment we brought our dogs home there have been so many questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why did you get dogs?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are they a lot to manage?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is it harder than you expected?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do your kids like them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What were you thinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You get the idea \ud83d\ude42&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hopefully, this will be the tell-all you\u2019re looking for, and I do a good job answering all your burning questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We started talking about getting a dog about four years ago. Our son Menny was struggling with significant behavioral challenges and one of many ideas that we considered was getting a dog, which we felt could really help. My husband and I did not grow up with any pets, it was a stretch for us, but we started to warm to the idea. Three years ago, we put down a deposit for an Aussie-doodle. As it got closer to the time, and we started learning more about the actualities of a puppy and its training, we backed out. The kids were a lot younger, life was&nbsp;<strong>a lot<\/strong>, and when I thought about adding a puppy to the mix, I would panic. The anxiety around the \u201cpuppy\u201d, was a clear sign that it wasn\u2019t the right thing to do at that time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bozeman is a literal dog paradise. Most people have at least one dog, and dogs have more rights than people around here. Kidding, but only sorta \ud83d\ude42 We have a lot of people to consult with and we decided that if we were to get a dog, it would need to be an adult dog. Finding a stable adult dog isn\u2019t easy. We had our eyes and ears open, but nothing ever panned out. As time passed, the thought of ever getting a dog seemed to become a distant memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This past March we got a call from a friend of ours, Pam, she knew of two golden doodles that needed a home. A woman in town lost her husband, suddenly, and she\u2019s moving out of state and couldn\u2019t take her 8-year-old dogs with her. Pam knew that at one point we were looking and wanted to know if we were interested. It came out of left field for us, like I said we kinda gave up on the idea. It sounded exciting and scary, especially because these dogs couldn\u2019t be separated, so it was two or none. A part of me wanted to pretend that I never heard of these dogs, like life was complicated enough, but I couldn\u2019t get it out of my head. I really felt like G-d puts thing in your path at exactly the right time. It was hard to deny. The shul moved out of our house after fourteen years. The mudroom was ready. Dogs would not have been a possibility without that space. When I reflect, I\u2019m like \u201cof course nothing panned out before\u201d. Not sure why sometimes I still question G-d\u2019s plan.&nbsp;&nbsp;Anyway, we can delve into that another time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We took our time visiting the dog over a 6-week time period. Obviously, we fell in love with them and a few days after Passover we brought them home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1124\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/16_DOGGIES-1124x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1575\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1575\" class=\"wp-image-1575\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"1050\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/05_DOGGIES.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1573\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1573\" class=\"wp-image-1573\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/05_DOGGIES.jpg 1400w, https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/05_DOGGIES-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/05_DOGGIES-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/02_DOGGIES-1400x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1574\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1574\" class=\"wp-image-1574\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1049\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/25_DOGGIES-1049x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1577\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1577\" class=\"wp-image-1577\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1050\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/23_DOGGIES-1050x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1576\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1576\" class=\"wp-image-1576\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1119\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/30_DOGGIES-1119x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1584\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/30_DOGGIES.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1584\" class=\"wp-image-1584\"\/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Peety and Ezzy have been with us for a few months now and here are my thoughts so far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dogs are amazing&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dogs are a pain&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The kids love them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Re-homing dogs is very similar to getting puppies&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I need to let go of perfection<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I learn something new everyday<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was totally wrong about which of the kids it would impact the most&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do not like the combination of dogs and rain<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I love them&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kids and dogs go together like cookies and milk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2 dogs = lots of poop&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-2 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1157\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/01_DOGGIES-1157x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1578\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1578\" class=\"wp-image-1578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/01_DOGGIES-1157x1150.jpg 1157w, https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/01_DOGGIES-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1157px) 100vw, 1157px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1158\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/13_DOGGIES-1158x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1579\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/13_DOGGIES.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1579\" class=\"wp-image-1579\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/13_DOGGIES-1158x1150.jpg 1158w, https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/13_DOGGIES-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1158px) 100vw, 1158px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In conclusion:&nbsp;<strong>Some days getting dogs is the best decision we ever made, and some days it\u2019s the worst decision we ever made<\/strong>. Guess what? both sentiments co-exist happily.&nbsp;&nbsp;How many of us feel this way about our kids? I know scandalous, lol, don\u2019t worry I am not comparing dogs to kids, I just want to propose the idea that these contradictions are everywhere in our lives. It makes sense. It\u2019s normal. Feeling them doesn\u2019t make you a bad person, just a human. When I have a day that the dogs are driving me crazy, it doesn\u2019t mean I regret my decision, it just means I\u2019m having a hard day, and yup there are plenty of those.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Are there many people that don\u2019t understand why we do the things we do, or make the decisions we make? Yes! Plenty! Are we the recipient of comments and \u201cjokes\u201d? Absolutely! It\u2019s ok, I am used to it and even understand it. Many choices I have made for our family are different and may make people feel uncomfortable.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I watch my kids develop their relationship with these furry creatures, it melts my heart. When I see them take on responsibilities and care for others, I\u2019m filled with a sense of accomplishment. For me that\u2019s worth it, at least while I write this \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"976\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/10_DOGGIES-976x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1581\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1581\" class=\"wp-image-1581\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1049\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/11_DOGGIES-1049x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1582\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1582\" class=\"wp-image-1582\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1049\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/19_DOGGIES-1049x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1583\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/19_DOGGIES.jpg\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1583\" class=\"wp-image-1583\"\/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m proud of us. This was so beyond our comfort zone; this<strong>\u00a0is<\/strong>\u00a0beyond our comfort zone.\u00a0\u00a0Guess what? that\u2019s where the magic happens. While I am not advocating for everyone to bring dogs into their lives, I am absolutely advocating for you to do something that scares the heck out of you and<strong> wait for the magic, its coming!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-2 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-4 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"787\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/26_DOGGIES-787x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1585\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1585\" class=\"wp-image-1585\"\/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"787\" height=\"1150\" src=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/12_DOGGIES-787x1150.jpg\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"1587\" data-link=\"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/?attachment_id=1587\" class=\"wp-image-1587\"\/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the moment we brought our dogs home there have been so many questions. Why did you get dogs? Are they a lot to manage? Is it harder than you expected? Do your kids like them? What were you thinking? You get the idea \ud83d\ude42&nbsp; Hopefully, this will be the tell-all you\u2019re looking for, and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1571,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,5,4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1570"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1590,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1570\/revisions\/1590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1571"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1570"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1570"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mud.webromancy.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1570"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}